Mums of Endoblog babies send a message

One of the best parts of my job is when I get photos of smiling, cute little newborn babies who shouldn't have been conceived officially, medically, because their mothers were declared infertile or something very similar... ("This is not going to be an easy ride. I have received the following letters from mothers of children who had almost given up on becoming parents when their babies were conceived. As an encouragement to those who are still waiting.

Hi Nóra! I would like to share with you a wonderful news and also thank you for your earlier help. I'm 13 weeks pregnant and although we don't know how we managed to carry our little miracle to term (maybe the adoption order that arrived in the meantime, maybe all the medication last year or just the knowledge that we're going to be parents without a flask helped). Although I think it helped that you turned on my baby button so well last fall that baby Pumpkin moved into my tummy in January! Thank you so much for your support and we will be forever grateful that you helped us experience the miracle of pregnancy and if you don't mind I'll be back at the end of October with some baby family photos! Petra

Dear Nóri! I am happy to inform you that Emma, our little miracle, has been born. From a mother and father who cannot have a child together. Please accept with love the pictures of Emma and know that we will be forever grateful to you. Monica and Peter

Oh my God! Yesterday when I was at your place, you said I was strange, and how different I looked. I remembered that it's been days late again...I didn't have high hopes, because you know how many times I've missed a whole cycle... But then I just took a test. And then another one. And then another one. And another. And each one had two fucking stripes, Nora. I am pregnant I am pregnant I AM PREGNANT!!!! Rami

Hi Nóri, Make an appointment for next week almost anytime is good, but I would really go, we need to change goals. Our first goal is a check mark... I attach the documentation, two stripes:-) Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you for everything! Erika

And please, if you can, tell girls in my shoes that it really only takes one egg to make a miracle baby, but I think we just need to really "open" all the doors and our child will find us when the time is right. Petra

You should have seen the doctor's face, he almost couldn't believe it. But of course he was very happy with us. He asked how come, how come, what we did differently. I said you, because that's right, we didn't do anything differently than before, we just came to you and you sorted us out in a few weeks. Our conversations made me feel more and more okay, okay with myself, okay with the world. And into this environment, the little bean bag was a welcome addition. Thank you for everything. Meli and Peter

After three miscarriages and the fourth one, when I had to give birth to my dead child, I came to you in a state from which I didn't think there was a way out, there was a way forward. Now, as I write this letter to you, with Marci sleeping peacefully beside me, I am reminded of my feelings and my feelings at that time. If it were not for you, if you did not support me, if you did not encourage me to continue working, to persevere and to make an effort, then Marci would certainly not be with us today, and perhaps I would not be either. I owe so much to you that I am almost ashamed to write the word thank you, because I would like to write something much nicer, but I can't, because I don't have another word. Thank you, thank you, thank you a thousand times over. Mary

Dear Nóri! Do you remember the first time I visited you and told you my story? Remember when I told you that the doctors said I couldn't conceive naturally? Well, they were wrong. Thanks for everything!:-)

Thank you for teaching me to connect with my Inner Healer. Thank you for teaching me to "talk" to my uterus, my ovaries. Thank you for showing me the control room where I could adjust my hormone levels. Thank you for showing me that I can look at my body with different eyes than I had been doing. Thank you for accompanying me on my journey until I arrived where I needed to be. I had my 4D ultrasound yesterday and it turns out we are having a baby girl. You could catch a bird with Milan, he's been walking metres above the ground ever since. Thank you for your help, we have talked a lot with Milan and we are both sure that without working with you over the past months we would not be here now. Sylvie

Hi, can we reschedule the consultation tomorrow morning for sometime in the early afternoon? It's just that I've been throwing up like a wedding dog for a few mornings now. I'm fucking pregnant. She's pregnant. :-)))))))) Ági

Hi, sorry I'm only writing now, things have been delayed. And twins, Nora, twins!!!Just as I saw them in the deep relax. Next week we'll have a haptoscopy. Thank you for all you've done so far, from now on, instead of the never having kids topic, let's focus on my twin pariahs. 🙂 Linda

Nóra Árvai psychologist, perinatal counsellor, writer

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